How to Cultivate a Grateful Heart in a Busy Season

How to Cultivate a Grateful Heart in a Busy Season

How to Cultivate a Grateful Heart in a Busy Season

 

“Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.” 
~ Psalm 107:1 (NIV)
Busy seasons often come fast and hit hard. Between work, school drop-offs, laundry, church activities, sports, and maybe just trying to breathe—gratitude can feel like something we’ll get to later, once life slows down.
But what if a grateful heart isn’t something we wait for… but something we grow right in the middle of the chaos?
God doesn’t ask us to be thankful only when things are peaceful. He invites us to give thanks in all circumstances—not for every circumstance, but in them (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Even in the mess. Even in the rush.
So how do we do that—really? How do we cultivate a heart of gratitude in a season where we barely have time to finish our coffee, let alone reflect and give thanks?
Let’s explore together.

1. Start with Surrender, Not Strategy
Before you make another to-do list or add “daily gratitude journal” to your planner, pause. Gratitude isn’t a productivity goal. It’s a posture of the heart. A heart surrendered to God will see blessings even in the busiest moments.
In a busy season, your soul might be asking for less doing and more being with God.
So before you start each day, pause, take a deep breath, and pray:
“Lord, I want to see Your goodness today. Help me to notice and give thanks.”
Gratitude starts not with a perfect plan, but with a surrendered spirit.

2. Look for God in the Little Things
Gratitude doesn’t always come in grand gestures. It often shows up in small, ordinary moments:
  • The toddler’s sleepy hug.
  • A sunbeam shining through the window.
  • The laugh that lightens your day.
  • A perfectly timed text from a friend offering words of encouragement.
  • Five peaceful minutes before the next thing begins.
In the chaos, hustle, and bustle of the day, we may wonder: Where is God showing up right now?” Just know - He’s been there all along.

3. Anchor Your Day with a Gratitude Breath

If you don’t have time for full journal entries, try this simple daily rhythm:

  • Morning: Before you get out of bed, thank God for one thing—big or small.
  • Midday: Pause for one deep breath. Thank God for one thing going right.
  • Night: Recall one way you saw His faithfulness during the day.
It takes less than a minute—but it reorients your heart toward God’s goodness.

4. Speak Gratitude Out Loud
Our words have power—not just to shape how others feel, but to shape how we see.
When life feels heavy or hurried, say things like:
  • “I’m tired, but I’m thankful for what today brought.”
  • “God, I see Your kindness in this moment.”
  • “This season is full, but so is my heart.”
Expressing gratitude out loud—even if it starts small—can shift your entire atmosphere.

5. Involve Your Kids or Loved Ones
Busy seasons often mean family time feels limited—but they’re also full of moments to grow and share gratitude together.
  • At dinner or in the car, ask: “What’s one thing you’re thankful for today?”
  • Write blessings on sticky notes and post them around the house.
  • Turn a grumpy moment into a gratitude challenge: “Can we name three things we’re thankful for—right now?”
Not only are you cultivating your own grateful heart—you’re planting the seeds of gratitude in their hearts too.

6. Give Thanks in the Hard Stuff, Too
Gratitude isn’t about ignoring the struggle. It’s about trusting that even in the midst of the struggle, God is still present, still good, still working.
Thank Him in the waiting.
Thank Him in the overwhelming moments.
Thank Him in the exhaustion—because He is still faithful.
When you offer God praise and have faith that He will get you through, He will transform your heart.

7. Make Space—Even If It’s Small
You may not have time for long devotionals everyday – but you can certainly carve out some quiet time and sacred space for God. He sees you. He hears you. He knows your heart. Here are just three ideas to consider.
  • Write a Bible verses on a sticky notes and stick them to all the mirrors in your house to recite whenever you walk by. (You might be surprises how often you look in the mirror each day.)
  • Take a 5-minute walk with worship music.
  • Whisper a prayer while doing chores around the house (like washing dishes or folding laundry).
These small, sacred pauses remind you: God is here. He is worthy of thanks.

Final Thoughts: Gratitude is Grown, Not Grabbed
In a busy season, it’s tempting to wait for life to calm down to express gratitude. But what if the gratitude comes first—and brings the calm with it?
Gratitude doesn’t mean your life is perfect. It means your eyes are open to God’s presence in the imperfection.
So today, in the middle of the noise and “busyness” of the day, let your heart find rest—not in getting everything done, but in noticing the One who’s been with you all along.
“Lord, in every full schedule and tired moment, teach me to be still long enough to say—thank You.”